"Dear Son..Dear daughter,
The day you find that I have become very old,
try to have some patience with me and try to understand me.
If I get dirty while eating...
If I have some difficulty dressing..be patient!
Remember the hours that I spent teaching you these thing when you were small
If I repeat the same thing dozens of time, do not interrupt me!Listen to me!
When you were small, you kept asking me to read you the same story,
evening after evening, until you fell asleep.
And I did it happily.
If I do not wash myself so often under the shower, do not reprimand me and do not tell me that it is as shame..
Remember how many excuses I had to invent to make you take a bath when you were small.
By seeing my ignorance of new technologies, do not laugh at me..
but give me time to understand
I taught you so many things...
to eat well, to dress well, to behave well, and how to confront the problem of the life.
If I sometimes lose memory or I am not able to follow a conversation,
give me the necessary time to recollect and of O do not get there,
do not become a nervous and arrogant person because the most important things for me is to be with you and to be able to speak with you...
If I refuse to eat, do not force me!
I know very well when I am hungry and when I am not hungry..
When my poor legs will not allow me to move as before...
Help me in the same way as I held your hands to teach you take your first steps...
And one day, I shall say to you that I do not want to live anymore..
that I want to die, do not get angry..
because one day you will also understand!
Try to understand at certain age, we do not really live anymore...
we simply survive!
One day, you will understand that in spite of all my errors...
I always wanted what wast best for you..
You do not to feel sad, unfortunate or incompetent in front of my old age and of my state..
You have to stay near me...
try to understand what I live for,
Help me walk, help me to end my life with love and patience.
The only thing that I need from you is a smile and a lot love
I love you..my son..my daughter!
Your Dad, Your Mum."
The day you find that I have become very old,
try to have some patience with me and try to understand me.
If I get dirty while eating...
If I have some difficulty dressing..be patient!
Remember the hours that I spent teaching you these thing when you were small
If I repeat the same thing dozens of time, do not interrupt me!Listen to me!
When you were small, you kept asking me to read you the same story,
evening after evening, until you fell asleep.
And I did it happily.
If I do not wash myself so often under the shower, do not reprimand me and do not tell me that it is as shame..
Remember how many excuses I had to invent to make you take a bath when you were small.
By seeing my ignorance of new technologies, do not laugh at me..
but give me time to understand
I taught you so many things...
to eat well, to dress well, to behave well, and how to confront the problem of the life.
If I sometimes lose memory or I am not able to follow a conversation,
give me the necessary time to recollect and of O do not get there,
do not become a nervous and arrogant person because the most important things for me is to be with you and to be able to speak with you...
If I refuse to eat, do not force me!
I know very well when I am hungry and when I am not hungry..
When my poor legs will not allow me to move as before...
Help me in the same way as I held your hands to teach you take your first steps...
And one day, I shall say to you that I do not want to live anymore..
that I want to die, do not get angry..
because one day you will also understand!
Try to understand at certain age, we do not really live anymore...
we simply survive!
One day, you will understand that in spite of all my errors...
I always wanted what wast best for you..
You do not to feel sad, unfortunate or incompetent in front of my old age and of my state..
You have to stay near me...
try to understand what I live for,
Help me walk, help me to end my life with love and patience.
The only thing that I need from you is a smile and a lot love
I love you..my son..my daughter!
Your Dad, Your Mum."
a touching article taken from imanqaisara.
it makes me really-really do want to cry!
missed abah's presence & missed mama very much.
guys, appreciate & love your parents with all your heart as long as they live,
make them happy so that your life will be much more happier & blissful!
**tak sabar nk balik kg peluk mama byk²!
xoxo,
3 comments:
yup btol tu kena hargai ibu ayah selagi mereka masih ada. buat yang dah tiada kita masih boleh sedekahkan al-fatihah semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat oleh-NYA.
salam kenal.tq jenguk2 blog sy..
skrg dah blh add comment dah :)..
noni: kan noni kan!
iman qaisara: :) hai.thanks for dropping by!
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